The Book
Sexual Intelligence — The Way of Fire is a manual for escaping the invisible prison in which culture has locked away the Fire of everyone, you included.
Seventeen chapters, three years of work, a new lens for reading your sexual energy — not as a problem to manage, but as the greatest resource you've forgotten how to inhabit.
English edition — coming 2026.
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Table of contents
- INTROHere we are, at the first Threshold
- CH 0Where I speak from
- CH 1The good child — the first prison of the fire
- CH 2Anger and sexuality — daughters of the same fire
- CH 3The triangle — the third force of the fire
- CH 4Raising the fire — the art of transmutation
- CH 5The price of the fire — who will love you and who will hate you
- CH 6Sexual initiation — surviving the forest of wolves
- CH 7The law of the mirror — the reflected fire
- CH 8Love and infatuation — the fire and the drug
- CH 9The Guardian of the Threshold — I just can't do it
- CH 10The Lion, the Serpent, the Eagle — the three animals of the fire
- CH 11The Saviour Syndrome — vampires in search of debtors
- CH 12White Gold, Red Gold — the chemistry of the fire
- CH 13The throat as a sexual organ
- CH 14The Retreat Drug — escape disguised as awakening
- CH 15Subjective Madness — rebooting the operating system
- CH 16The truth that lights the fire
- CH 17Sexual Intelligence — the lens of the Fire
Extract: from the Introduction
Here we are, at the first Threshold.
You're about to enter a book of Fire. Let me tell you, in a few lines, what awaits you — and what doesn't — so you can decide whether you're ready to cross it.
I'll begin with the most honest thing I can tell you, before any other word.
I write this book with fear.
And that's exactly why I write it. To find the courage to no longer feel that fear. To be ruthlessly honest even when my voice trembles, even when my hand would soften the sentence before handing it over.
I write it the way you seal a pact with your own Fire: I go all the way down, I don't tame it, I don't disguise it to please anyone. From here on, it's that pact talking — not me.
Maps are drawn by those who have fallen in the territory.
Never by those who have arrived.